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Palliative Care


Post 100: The Other Half of the Doctor's Conversation (that Often Does Not Occur)
"The doctors said he had a poor prognosis. That was basically it." "They said he isn't doing well. So I guess we'll have to wait and...
Jeanne Lee


Post 99: The Realities of Palliative Care or “Palliative Care Can’t Do Magic, But It Can Provide Clarity”
“We’re not ready for hospice…but what about palliative care? Can she get that?” The man, probably in his late 60s, was the designated...
Jeanne Lee


Post 95: Statistics Is Not Prognosis
Discussing prognosis can cause more anxiety than good in some...and it may relieve anxiety and the overwhelming sense of uncertainty in...
Jeanne Lee


Post 94: Medical Decision Making - Another Perspective that Might Help If You Feel Stuck
"Five years from now, which decision would you regret the least in making?" When their loved one is not doing well and not able to make...
Jeanne Lee


Post 91: How Do You Show Up for Someone After Their Loss? - Nine Gentle Suggestions
When it comes to knowing what to say or what to do with a friend or acquaintance who is deeply grieving loss, I would probably feel just...
Jeanne Lee


Post 89: The Evolution of Goals
"At this time, knowing what you know about your medical condition, what is most important to you?" When a palliative care physician asks...
Jeanne Lee


Post 87: Are We Treating Me or My MRI?
“She’s getting better!” Ruben emphatically exclaimed, as he grasped his wife’s hand. Dr. Les, the palliative care specialist meeting...
Jeanne Lee


Post 81: How Palliative Care Can Change a Life – Sliding Doors Moment #3
A “sliding doors moment” is a seemingly inconsequential moment that ultimately changes the trajectory of future events in a dramatic...
Jeanne Lee


Post 79: Doctors Can Hide Behind Technical Terms and Ambiguous Words - 4 Tips for Getting Clarity
At least a couple times a year, I sit with a new patient who is undergoing surgery, radiation, and/or chemotherapy and who turns still...
Jeanne Lee


Post 78 - "If You Really Loved Me, You Wouldn't Leave Me" and Other Things We Say When We're Hurting
I hear doctors comment that their colleagues feel like they have failed in the face of impending death of one of their patients (though I...
Jeanne Lee
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